I think your husband is an asshole. He admitted that he is doing this to exclude you. He wants you to feel uncomfortable in your own home. He is actively planning for it. Is this really the marriage you want? NTA it’s beyond disrespectful to intentionally exclude someone in a social situation. Also what type of “embarrassing conversations” I’m Not Yelling, I’m Dominican shirt is the having that you can’t hear? It sounds like whatever he’s saying would upset you and he knows that, which only makes it more disrespectful NTA, I can’t say anything about the way you said you felt excluded that he might have felt offended or something.. but having a grudge party in your house and telling you are not welcome… MAJOR RED FLAG DETECTED, WARNING WARNING
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This deff NTA – if he wants to be alone with his friends he can go somewhere else to be alone with them, or inform you he wants to have night with his friends. When you’re there in your common living space doing something together like eating dinner they should try to include you by at least partly talking English. Right now he’s just chasing you from YOUR house where YOU also live He is being very disrespectful to you. This is your home as well. It is common courtesy to speak in a language all at a gathering understand. If he is saying things that are too embarrassing for you to hear that is I’m Not Yelling, I’m Dominican shirt disrespect and he is inviting his friends to give you the same disrespect. It makes me wonder what he is saying that would be embarrassing, is he talking about your sex life, how hot he thinks that girl at work is, or worse. I am so upset for you.
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For him to plan a party in your home knowing he is hurting you is a betrayal of your marriage. I would not leave I would be sure to ask question after question. Especially things like do all of you always try to leave people out of your gatherings or just me. What did he just say? Hey will you translate for me tonight my husband doesn’t seem to care if I get left out of things I’m hoping his friends are kinder. If he is going to be disrespectful let more than him know that is I’m Not Yelling, I’m Dominican shirt he is doing? I will say though, if he wants to have some evenings where he can spend time with his friends without his wife, he should be able to do that, even in your own home. It’s his home too. It’s also quite clear his friends have no interest in building any kind of friendship with you, since they make practically no effort in speaking english, so I would stop trying. Unless he’s inviting them three times a week (that’s a lot of time to be an unwanted guest in your own home), let him have his time with his friends and do something for you.