You hit the nail on the head. It became “interesting” because of the moving parts, 2 good-looking kids, 2 different backgrounds, adding Jay in the mix, and you have a story. It’s really just a DV case. I’m Hae and Adnan’s exact age, graduating in 1999. I was well liked, and dated a kid a few years older, Christmas Teacher Life 2020 Cute Santa Wearing Mask Wrong T-Shirt but everyone knew him because we all traveled in the same circles, and he of course was a few grades a head of us. A couple years out of high school, when we split, the pain was unbearable. Me, being perceived as the loser, absolutely killed me. We all still hung out with everyone, and I still saw these people all the time, and my young, stupid ego was broken. I’m a female, and was never violent, and always “nice” and I wanted to kill him or myself.
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That’s sounds insane, and of course I’d never do it, but you can see when people are so hurt, that they do it. Of course they do, we read about it every single day. Adnan Syed is no different. This is exactly how it went down. Whatever the details are, we will never know. He killed her, Jay knew before hand, and he helped bury her. I agree with every thing you said. I’m a generation or so older than you. I had my heart broken in high school, was the “loser” in a break up Christmas Teacher Life 2020 Cute Santa Wearing Mask Wrong T-Shirt (and took unmerciful grief from my “friends” about it). Probably the saddest I’ve ever been. I had suicidal ideation, the only time in my life that ever happened. (I’m happy I muscled through it, obviously, looking back from the perspective of middle age on what has been, on balance, a fulfilling life so far.)
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So, it is totally not credible to me that Adnan just blew right past this unprecedented event in his life, that it had no effect on his psyche. Completely! It was the most devastating time in my life. I think for any teen, young adult, it is such a blow. Your whole world blows up ( what little you know then) and your sense of self, is shattered. I’m married, with children, and am friendly with the ex ( if I see him in my city) but that killed me , and took me a long time to get over. You are dead on, he didn’t blow past that. Christmas Teacher Life 2020 Cute Santa Wearing Mask Wrong T-Shirt As my mother always said, youth is wasted on the young. Adolescence is such a transitional, provisional state of personhood, yet it seems like anything but that when you are going through it. How my heart goes out to the young people of this time, who have it so much tougher than I did