TL;DR: OP’s mother stole large amounts of money off her daughter, promised to pay smaller amounts of money in return, took out loans on things that belonged to OP without caring about the consequences that behavior had on OP, refused to accept that OP’s BF was stepping up and protecting her, physically attacked OP for saying enough was enough, August Guy Devil Birthday for Boyfriend Husband Son Shirt and finally insisted that her feeeeeeeeelings were all that mattered despite ignoring OP’s depression for years. Also, never accept anything from her, not even a pair of socks. With her financially abusive tendencies, any present she gives you is likely to come with some hefty “you owe me for being remotely nice so pay X thousand dollars” strings attached.
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You need to file a restraining order against your mother. Do whatever you have to do to become completely and utterly independent of her. Cut her out of your life completely. Cut anyone out of your life who sides with her in this matter. You are just starting to come out of the FOG, but your vision is still blurred by all the abuse you suffered at her hands. Yes, she was complicit in the abuse by her BF, but she, herself, has abused you your entire life: physical, psychically, emotionally and financially. You owe her nothing. August Guy Devil Birthday for Boyfriend Husband Son Shirt. She failed to provide even the minimum that parents owe their kids: shelter and safety. She’s sad? Good. I hope that she dies, sad and alone, when she realizes that people have stopped falling for her poor me routine.
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Here’s what you owe yourself, though. You owe it to yourself to take your brains and your caring heart and finish your nursing degree, get your license and become self-supporting. You owe it to yourself to lock down your credit, your SS number and your income, so that she can never take another penny from you. While you are doing that, you owe it to yourself to learn about how to budget, how to put together an emergency fund and to save for big purchases, like a house, and for your retirement. August Guy Devil Birthday for Boyfriend Husband Son Shirtof all, you owe it to yourself to create a happy, tension and fearless life, without that toxic sludge who happily destroyed your childhood, your adolescence and your credit.